Friday, June 17, 2022

June 17 = Life of Christ # 120 Jesus tells the parable of the unforgiving debtor (Matthew 18:21-35)

 Jesus tells the parable of the unforgiving debtor

Matthew 18:21-35

Intro Questions

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  • God is ... What do we learn about God in this passage?
  • We are ... What do we learn about people in this passage?

  • I will ... What has the Holy Spirit revealed to us in this passage? How can I apply it to my life this week?

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Parables -
Parable of the Unmerciful Servant
Matthew 18:21-35
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A couple of days after President Kennedy was tragically gunned down in Dallas, Texas, a Presbyterian church from the state of Michigan wrote to the wife of Lee Harvey Oswald.  They had heard that she wished to stay in America and learn the English language.  They took it upon themselves to write to her and invite her to come to their community with the promise of finding her a home that she might get a fresh start on a productive life.  Unfortunately, many persons both in the local community and from around the nation got wind of this plan and began writing many critical letters about their offer to this widow.  One person probably described the situation most correctly when she said, "I never heard of a church doing anything like this before."  She knew that forgiveness is not often found even in a group of believers who could probably best be called and known as "sinners anonymous."  Forgiveness is so hard.

The minister began the painstaking job of answering each letter that came across his desk that was both unkind and critical of the church's response. With great sensitivity he wrote each person a letter sharing that he understood their feelings and emotions about their efforts on behalf of Mrs. Oswald.  However, he ended each letter by sharing, "The only thing you have not shown us is that what we have done would not have been done by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."

Yes, forgiveness is never easy, but it is the will of God.



Opening Questions — Get Us Thinking:
What was one of the worst things your brother or sister ever did to you?
What would you do to celebrate if all of your debts were suddenly canceled?


The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant — Mathew 18:21-35
21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”
22Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.g
23“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of goldh was brought to him. 25Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
26“At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.
28“But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.i He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.
29“His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’
30“But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.
32“Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
35“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”


Research Questions — “dig deeper” to find God’s Will
1. What makes true forgiveness so powerful?
2. An “offender” in Jesus' day would forgive up to three times; a 4th offense need not be forgiven. What does Jesus’ answer say about forgiveness in His Kingdom?
3. Do we forgive others so God will forgive us, or does God forgive us so that we will have a forgiving attitude? Explain
4. Based on this Parable, is God's forgiveness of us limited or unlimited? Conditional or unconditional? Likewise, a forgiveness of others?
5. What factors prevent us from being more forgiving of the sins of others?
6. What prevents us from being more forgiving of the sins of others?
7. What did Jesus not mean by 77 times?
8. What did Jesus mean by 77 times?
9. When we fail to forgive our fellow Christian, what do we do to Christ’s work to cleanse and remake people into members of God's Kingdom?
10. How does forgiving others benefit us?
11.  How do we reconcile Matthew 18:35 with 18:17?

Reflective Questions — live it today.
1. How can we forgive, yet not encourage, irresponsibility?
2. How can you forgive someone from the distant past who hurt you deeply?
3. What is the connection between forgiveness, health, and wholeness?
4. How does it make you feel to know that God's forgiveness of you is affected by your own forgiveness of others?
5. How would you solve the problem of forgiving someone who didn't even know or care that they hurt you and, so, did not ask for forgiveness?
6. Think of someone you know who needs to be encouraged to forgive another person. Decide how you can encourage them. Then do it.
7. Why is this statement true: “When we do not forgive each other, we completely devalue the crucifixion?”
8. If you heard and admitted alcoholic tearfully ask for forgiveness over and over again, how would you react after the 8th or 9th Time?
9. Visualize yourself at the foot of the cross looking into the suffering eyes of Jesus. Next to you as someone who need your forgiveness. What do you see happening as the scene unfolds?
10. Make a list of people that you need to forgive, and any major whatsoever, and for what.






Resources:

 

Document for DBS

Series: True Story “Parables of Jesus”

Stories are the language of the soul. We connect with stories and we remember them. That is why Jesus used storytelling so often to illustrate deeper truths. His stories, known as parables, were Jesus’ way to communicate important Kingdom principles. Although the details of these stories were imagined, the Kingdom principles are not. They are true and eternal.

Title: Canceled Debt” (Unmerciful Servant)

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Opening Thoughts: There is an undeniable link between God's forgiveness of you and your forgiveness of others. What does it look like to truly forgive—to cancel the debt and let someone go?

v  “Christianity has an image problem.”

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Text: Matthew 18:21-35

 

The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.

23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.

26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.[c] He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’

30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.

32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”

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Summarize the main story: Describe the events of the story in your own words.

v  Review and retell the story.

Reflections for applications:

v   10 Thousand Talents?

o   In approximate modern equivalents, if a laborer earns $20 per hour, at 2,000 hours per year he would earn $40,000 per year, and a talent would equal $800,000 (USD). Hence, “ten thousand talents” hyperbolically represents an incalculable debt—in today’s terms, about $8 billion!

v  Hundred denarii ($16,000)

v  What God Has Done for Us

o   Romans 5:6-8 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

v  We Need Saving

o   Galatians 1:4 NIV - who gave himself for our sins to rescue us from the present evil age, according to the will of our God and Father,

o   1 Peter 1:24 NIV - For, "All people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass withers and the flowers fall,

v  Responsibility to Forgive

o   Matthew 6:12, 14-15 NIV - 12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. ... 14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

o   Colossians 3:8-10 NIV - 8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.

o   Colossians 3:12-14 NIV - 12 Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

v  Truly Forgive?

o   2 Corinthians 5:18-19 NIV - 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.

v  How Joseph Forgave

o   Genesis 50:15-21 NIV - 15 When Joseph's brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, "What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the wrongs we did to him?" 16 So they sent word to Joseph, saying, "Your father left these instructions before he died: 17 'This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.' Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father." When their message came to him, Joseph wept. 18 His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him. "We are your slaves," they said. 19 But Joseph said to them, "Don't be afraid. Am I in the place of God? 20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. 21 So then, don't be afraid. I will provide for you and your children." And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.

v  Reconciled

o   We are reconciled to God when we are forgiven!

o   Acts 2:38-39 NIV - 38 Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. 39 The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off--for all whom the Lord our God will call."

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Digging Questions:

·         How will you respond to God’s “True Story”? What transformative move needs to be made?

·         What do these biblical texts tell you about God and His nature?

·         What is God calling us (me and you individually) to do?

Take Away Challenges

·         What has the Holy Spirit revealed to you in this passage? How will you apply it to your life this week?

·         Whom do you know who needs to hear this?

·         What is God bringing to your attention in this discussion? What beliefs, thoughts or actions need to be addressed or changed?

Hash tags #Parables #Sin #Forgiveness #Debt #Unmerciful

Sunday sermon link  https://youtu.be/uCJl24a48U4

Kevin’s Blog Link to more resources:         Click here for Kevin’s Blog Notes

Comments and resources with some more resources:

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18%3A21-35&version=NIV

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